Why Should Children Suffer?
Children are the blessings of God. When the parents opt for a divorce, it inevitably hurts the children to a deep extent even though they may not show it on the surface.
When a happy family is split, the security of the children is questioned. They are mentally affected and sometimes will not be able to cope with the situation.
Try to look from your child's point of view. Their happy home with a mother and father and the unity of their house will never be the same again and the siblings too may have to part. If it was war that once separated families, now it is divorce. The feeling that they are going to lose one of the parents will shatter their mental make up.
Should the children suffer for no fault of theirs? Should they face social rebuke? Relocating can be extremely painful for kids because they will miss their present friends and school.
Saving a marriage where children are involved is necessary for their proper upbringing. Love and care for kids should take first priority and differences between partners must be sorted out if possible. Divorcing for trivial reasons will only destroy your children's future. All means of reconciliation must be tried to smooth out the marriage problems. To ensure a bright future for children, both the partners must give them the top priority.
Children, when brought up in a loving atmosphere will grow up to be responsible citizens and will look after their parents when they become old and weak. If parents do not give enough attention and care and keep on marrying and divorcing, how will the children be of such parents when they grow up?
Please take enough care and shower love on your spouse and children to have a happy married life and home by loving, forgiving, sharing, and acting responsibly like a mature adult. Then the world itself will admire you. A family is a blessing. Try to think of orphaned children and you will realize that your children are dearer to you than any silly quarrel with your spouse.
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